Keep this for the über - occasion like anniversaries. Take a scrapbook or photo album and compile all the little cute things you did together , including movie stubs , concert tickets , rose petals , wine labels , etc. Just make sure they are from the correct romantic era ( I.e. not your ex ! ). She will worship you , and you will put her gift to shame ! Now that's power.
My most successful meal has a perfect batting average: Mussels. I know they say that oysters ares the best aphrodisiac. I can back that up since every time I prepare mussels for a young lady , she ends up complimenting me
Want to spice up a "Stay at home" evening ? Nothing says I want you bad like drinking some homemade sangria. By the time the sangria is over and the buzz is starting , she will be sucking the sangria juice out of the strawberries , cherries and lemons that you will be feeding her with your mouth
Nothing says I love you better or justifies maxing out your credit card than getting her matching jewelry. I personally save this for a back - to - back occasion like Christmas and a birthday. My favorite ? The anklet and the necklace. Okay , the belly - chain gets votes , but only if the girl has the right curves , is willing to wear one , and most importantly , puts it to good use.
Why send flowers to her house when only her cat can see ? Send them to work ( Or class ) when you can let her show off. And guys , there are many more flowers out there than just roses
Jewelry is the easy way out boys. Maybe she wants an antique doll , or a nice wooden chest. Find out , get it for her , and she will love you. Be careful not to offer her a family heirloom unless she is the one you will marry ( Keep it in the family , son).
This one is for the days in between special occasions: listen to her , compliment her every time you think of something you don't like about yourself. Make her feel like you have found a diamond in the rough and you will never leave her side.
Go over to her place with a rose , cough syrup , chicken soup , whatever you think might help. Don't expect any action on that day. But I guarantee that you will score points beyond your wildest dreams.
Surprise her with brochures from an area she has always wanted to visit. Make the trip she has always dreamed of , come true. You will have a blast and she will always cherish the memories you will build together.
if she's ever upset, talk to her and deal with the problem RIGHT THEN. And hugs go a long way! Remember to be affectionate (without fondling)... nothing is more annoying than thinking hubby is being sweet only to find out he wants something more!
Ask her what you can do to help her... she probably feels really under the weather and fatigued. It's a miserable thing to constantly feel sick and NOT be!
My husband offers me back rubs every once in a while, which don't really help the pain much, but it does wonders for my attitude! I appreciate that he takes notice of me even though I feel like a cow. ;) He also rubs my legs when I have leg cramp attacks in the middle of the night and constantly tells me he loves the way I look (even if he's lying, he sounds convincing!).
Help her with housework and tell her to take it easy. My husband works long hours, but when he comes home and tells me I should go rest and he'll finish the floors... it's selfless and it sends me the message that even though I don't work as many hours as he does, he still acknowledges I'm working hard and he appreciates me!
