10 ways to show your wife you love her

Your wife desperately needs to hear it. She says she wants for you to show it, too. How can you say, "I Love You" through your words and deeds without using those three words all of the time? Here are fifty great ideas:

1. Leave a note under her windshield wiper at work.

2. Give her a flower for each month you have been together.

3. Give her a facial massage.

4. Take her to the ballet or theatre.

5. Plan an overnight at a bed & breakfast.

6. Get a babysitter every friday.

7. Give your mate a romantic basket - with bubble bath, massage oil, chocolates, etc.

8. Give her a key with a note that says, "You have the key to my heart" or, "You're the key to my happiness."

9. Send flowers to your sweetie's workplace.

10. If you go on a business trip for an extended period of time, send your mate cards timed to arrive the beginning, middle, and end of your trip.

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Secrets come out

Let me tell you a big secret about woman, which also includes your wife. Your wife may ask you for your opinion on something because it is in her nature to get a second opinion but that does not necessarily mean that she will go with your opinion or your opposing viewpoint.

Touched, Hugged, Sex ?

Don’t forget, you wife likes to be touched and hugged without the pressure of sex looming in the near future. Sometimes the hugging and coddling is more important to her than the actual sex act. Not that she doesn’t like to orgasm but that she wants to KNOW that you love her more than the sex act itself. Hug her and cuddle her and you’ll most likely get what you want later.

Candlelit

A woman likes a man who can cook. How about cooking her an intimate candlelit dinner for two? Don’t know how to cook? Get a cookbook and do it anyway. Have some fun in the kitchen and enjoy yourself.

Love - We can only feel

In the first place, try to accept that your partner is like this only. Don't be bothered by thinking how he or she should have been - it will only leave you disgruntled and will lead to differences, and then clash and gloom. Still, if you feel that your partner has certain very obnoxious habitudes, you can seek to reform him or her gradually, but you should maneuver the whole thing with such shrewdness that your loved one doesn't feel hurt.

SCRAPBOOK OF LOVE

Keep this for the über - occasion like anniversaries. Take a scrapbook or photo album and compile all the little cute things you did together , including movie stubs , concert tickets , rose petals , wine labels , etc. Just make sure they are from the correct romantic era ( I.e. not your ex ! ). She will worship you , and you will put her gift to shame ! Now that's power.

COOK HER SOMETHING SPECIAL

My most successful meal has a perfect batting average: Mussels. I know they say that oysters ares the best aphrodisiac. I can back that up since every time I prepare mussels for a young lady , she ends up complimenting me

STAY HOME AND DRINK TOGETHER

Want to spice up a "Stay at home" evening ? Nothing says I want you bad like drinking some homemade sangria. By the time the sangria is over and the buzz is starting , she will be sucking the sangria juice out of the strawberries , cherries and lemons that you will be feeding her with your mouth

MATCHING JEWELRY

Nothing says I love you better or justifies maxing out your credit card than getting her matching jewelry. I personally save this for a back - to - back occasion like Christmas and a birthday. My favorite ? The anklet and the necklace. Okay , the belly - chain gets votes , but only if the girl has the right curves , is willing to wear one , and most importantly , puts it to good use.

SEND HER FLOWERS AT WORK

Why send flowers to her house when only her cat can see ? Send them to work ( Or class ) when you can let her show off. And guys , there are many more flowers out there than just roses

FIND OUT WHAT SHE WANTS

Jewelry is the easy way out boys. Maybe she wants an antique doll , or a nice wooden chest. Find out , get it for her , and she will love you. Be careful not to offer her a family heirloom unless she is the one you will marry ( Keep it in the family , son).

TREAT HER LIKE A PRINCESS

This one is for the days in between special occasions: listen to her , compliment her every time you think of something you don't like about yourself. Make her feel like you have found a diamond in the rough and you will never leave her side.

TAKE CARE

Go over to her place with a rose , cough syrup , chicken soup , whatever you think might help. Don't expect any action on that day. But I guarantee that you will score points beyond your wildest dreams.

PLAN A TRIP TOGETHER

Surprise her with brochures from an area she has always wanted to visit. Make the trip she has always dreamed of , come true. You will have a blast and she will always cherish the memories you will build together.

Talk to her

if she's ever upset, talk to her and deal with the problem RIGHT THEN. And hugs go a long way! Remember to be affectionate (without fondling)... nothing is more annoying than thinking hubby is being sweet only to find out he wants something more!

Simple Efforts

Ask her what you can do to help her... she probably feels really under the weather and fatigued. It's a miserable thing to constantly feel sick and NOT be!

My husband offers me back rubs every once in a while, which don't really help the pain much, but it does wonders for my attitude! I appreciate that he takes notice of me even though I feel like a cow. ;) He also rubs my legs when I have leg cramp attacks in the middle of the night and constantly tells me he loves the way I look (even if he's lying, he sounds convincing!).

Help her with housework and tell her to take it easy. My husband works long hours, but when he comes home and tells me I should go rest and he'll finish the floors... it's selfless and it sends me the message that even though I don't work as many hours as he does, he still acknowledges I'm working hard and he appreciates me!